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Coaching Strategies

Unsure what your ‘thing’ is? Clue #2: it’s what you give but don’t get enough of yourself

Unwitting self-sacrifice isn’t rare amongst good, capable people. It’s a pattern of behaviour I see with increasing frequency, the more I coach. Here’s how to work out what it’s telling you…

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Coaching Strategies Uncategorized

Can most problems or dilemmas be solved with this one simple question?

In being oh-so-serious and determined to fix something, we unwittingly over-complicate the situation, raise the stakes far too high and blow things out of all proportion. Here’s one alternative.

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Coaching Notes

Maybe you too had the answers all along?

An exceptionally generous offer with no strings attached. Would you like to solve a problem, once-and-for-all?

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Coaching Strategies

Unsure what your ‘thing’ is? Clue #1: it’s what you take for granted

There are things about you – inclinations, experiences, stuff you’re capable of, that are so intrinsic to who you are that you’re practically blind to them.

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Creativity Strategies

Here’s an artful way to handle criticism

Criticism feels like attack when that beautiful thing you invest so much time and effort in melds with your very being. To cope, what if you thought more like a Shaman?