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Coaching Creativity Strategies

What ‘what next?’ is trying to tell you (about what to do next)

This is an existential question that deserves an existential answer. But how many times a day do you pause before leaping mindlessly into the next pile of menial shit?

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Coaching Strategies

Unsure what your ‘thing’ is? Clue #3: it’s what you obsess over

Ever felt jealous, angry or frenzied about some lucky bugger living a more purposeful, values-led career? Don’t worry, it’s a sign…

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Coaching Strategies

Unsure what your ‘thing’ is? Clue #2: it’s what you give but don’t get enough of yourself

Unwitting self-sacrifice isn’t rare amongst good, capable people. It’s a pattern of behaviour I see with increasing frequency, the more I coach. Here’s how to work out what it’s telling you…

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Coaching Strategies

Can most problems or dilemmas be solved with this one simple question?

In being oh-so-serious and determined to fix something, we unwittingly over-complicate the situation, raise the stakes far too high and blow things out of all proportion. Here’s one alternative.

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Coaching Strategies

Unsure what your ‘thing’ is? Clue #1: it’s what you take for granted

There are things about you – inclinations, experiences, stuff you’re capable of, that are so intrinsic to who you are that you’re practically blind to them.